...with one of my best friends. Remember one of my old posts, asking about which girl I should go out with? Well, I'm now in a huge craphole which I cannot get out of.

Problem is, she and her boyfriend are still going out. I'm not out to break them up or anything. I'm happy for them. See, when she's happy, I'm happy. when she's sad, I'm also sad. We have this connection. I don't know how to explain it. I have seriously fallen in love with her. I have no idea what I should do. Some advice would be great.

Well, that happened to me once, but nott so severe....i justwaited till she broke up with him then asked her out and we went out for 6 months. If you really love her though u wouldnt wanan get in the way of her and her bf, u would want her happy so id leave it be...sotrry to say. :)

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This is several things you can do in this situation...
1. i just get a hoe (but thats not for everyon)
2. Break up the two and risk the friendship
3. Wait it out and see when they break up
4. Move on to someone else
5. Try to ecome closer friends without making it abvious and go in for the move.
6. Just ask her what she things about the idea. But it cant be like " Hey i got sex ed next and i need a partner for show and tell" No pick up lines. Never. when it comes to friends. They're to risky. It has to be asked out of curiosity. Such as first start out in a sad and depressing mood. "its been a terrible day"," i feel so alone at times", "no gurl will ever find me attractive" etc etc balh blah blah your so pretty blah blah i want a gurl like you, you get me blah blah blah then you go in for the kill question. " i feel likeall gurlz find me unattractve and wouldn't ever consider me goin out with them, would you ever go out with me?" That'll make your decision. The worst thing that can happen is she says I dont know. Then you gotta say how much her opinion means to you blah lah blah blah blah blah blo me "wat did you say" show me. yes that will do blah blah blah and something will somehow come out of all this. I could write a book on it but then we would take up this whole forum.
7. Get somone to take care of her boyfriend. Now im CeDaRPonTzTeR, but the full moon im HiTmAnStEr. I take him out for a 20 piece and dont gank me on the count or ill bust a cap.

Anyquestions just post. And dont tell my gf cause shell go wicked pisser on my az if she reads this.

I definitely can't give advise. If I saw a woman that I wanted to be with really bad, I'd usually sabotage their relationship, cause them to break up, and then ask her out shortly after. I've done that several times. I don't anymore though, because the last relationship I did that to, I lost my best friend when I took his girl. I say, deal with it, things could change later.


I never said I was a nice person. Just don't let selfishness get the better of you, like it had me on occasions--nothing good comes of it, and you'll still be miserable after a while.

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Ich lebe deinen Traum!

At this point, there is not much you can do. My best advice is to NOT to take any of CeDaRPoInTzTeR's advice.:D

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I know how I would have felt in High School when I was your age (I'm assuming you're in high school, maybe late middle school). I'll throw in my two cents, although probably no one here will even consider it. I have seen how fake most high school relationships are. My advice: Stay good FRIENDS. I spent my entire junior and senior career liking one girl, and then part of my freshman career of college as well. I came to the realization that I don't need a girlfriend. Girls take a lot of time, a lot of patience, and a lot of money. I don't even want to get into a relationship until I can give any girl all three of those things, even if I have to wait until I'm 30 or 35 before I start dating again (Seriously). I have many good friends who are girls, and I'm the happiest I've ever been. Is she going to let you hang out with your friends all the time? Ride coasters? There's just too many things that I want to do right now that I don't want to be tied down to somebody. I'll most likely get flamed like crazy for this, but I've lived it, and many people who are older would agree with me. Good luck though, however it turns out.:)

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i have your problem. I met this hella nice hella hot girl at the dance yesterday. She hugged me soo my friends are gonna make me ask her out. (she goes to a different school though :( )

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My advice: If she likes her boyfriend, don't go there.

Sorry to say, simple as that. If there are no problems in their relationship and you truely care about her, then why would you want to cause any?

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i'm not the best guy to ask this but, this is what i would do, wait it out. and if u die a bachleor, well it was fun waiting.

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Its murda...

Well, I'm in no way out to sabatoge their relationship at all.

I think I'll go with Natelox's advice, lol. I'll die a bachelor! YEAH!

Oh, yeah, and her boyfriend is on the J.V. Football team...but he really sux, lol. I was gonna go out for football next year anyway, but now I have another reason to do it. To beat some sense into Greg...I know his game. I have played it once before myself, but not anymore. If I hear about him doing anything to hurt her, I will go after him.

Oh, and I'm a Sophomore in HS.

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Coaster131 [/i]
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I think I'll go with Natelox's advice, lol. I'll die a bachelor! YEAH!

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We'll see if you feel that way when your 25.

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Ich lebe deinen Traum!

I have a lot of friends that are girls and its a problem, because right now I'm friends with a girl that I am so into and its so much more difficult to ask a girl out when your really tight with them. :Sigh:

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Who's afraid of the Big Black Bat?

well, you could attempt maliciously to break them up, then make your move. months later, when she finally realizes (through chance or inevitability) what you did, you'll have successfully ruined both the relationship and the friendship.

so i'd say look elsewhere for now and let the chips fall where they may with your friend. in the end, things will work out or the won't, and you'll be happy or you won't. and the twisted game of life rolls on.

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[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by mforce45 [/i]
[B]Girls take a lot of time, a lot of patience, and a lot of money. I don't even want to get into a relationship until I can give any girl all three of those things. Is she going to let you hang out with your friends all the time? Ride coasters? [/B][/QUOTE]

If I ever get to go out with the girl I want to take out (BTW, she is my friend, just to go with what mforce45 said about being friends) she would let me hang out with my friends, and definately let me ride coasters. She loves coasters also, but isnt like me and could recite the stats of MF if asked. Here is a story, although i doubt anybody is going to care about it. Anyway...
In science, when the teacher is absent, she leaves us Current Science magazines to read and then do a sheet on the contents of the magazine. On the back, there are mystery pictures. Last week, there was a picture of roller coaster restraints(OTSR)and there wasnt a floor. I was determined to find out what the coaster/ride was. I studied it for 3-5 minutes, and figured it out. The restraints were orange, and it was 4 across.(it only showed one seat, but you could see restraints and other parts of seats right ext to the first one) It also had some ridges at the top, and there was really any padding. So, the ride wasnt actually a coaster, but an Intmain Giant Drop ride, specifically Dungeon Drop. I went up to the girl and said, "I know what ride that is" and she says, "I kow too. It is Dungeon Drop. I love that ride!" So, there is my story, but I know she would go with me to SFAW anytime she could. Anyway, thats is

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I love Sidecar on Mainstreet!

The honest truth is, you need to stop hanging out with her. If you don't then you'll just be causing yourself grief, and you might even do something foolish or embarrasing. I know it's hard to forget about something that means so much to you, but this is the only way you'll be able to get on with your life. Trust me on this one.

My advice would be to just wait it out. Becuase the last thing that you want to do is to cause a breach in their relationship. If you try to sabotage her relationship or cause or her any pain then that will show that you don't really like her that much after all.

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ok thjis is what you shall do get her to liek you like you get her to laugh at what you say then they all like you or you could pay the hottest girl inb school to go out with you then you tell your friend then she gets mad and she breaks up with him and you break up with her and she asks you out there you go! go get her tiger!

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Don't be a friend. That is the most annoying thing about girls. They'll only go out with you if they don't see you as a friend. Does the line "I don't wanna ruin the friendship" ring a bell to anyone?

If you can, it'd be a good idea to become friends with him. Talk to him without her, and ask him what he thinks of her. I can guarantee that he’ll say something really slack if he knows you well enough. If you want to gain his trust, just tell him something about you (it doesn’t have to be true, just believable. Wait for him to say something stupid about her, and convert it to memory.

When they fight, and she's backstabbing him, and saying how much of an ****hole he is, join in and repeat what he said., and offer the words 'he's a total (Insert profanity here)' and give her hugs, then your set.

PROS:
It'll appear that you weren't trying to break them up but you were trying to comfort her, making you the good guy.

She'll be more open with you.

CONS:
If you start talking about him before she does, then you've got no chance in hell of getting it.

It has to be a big fight, if it’s just a small one then you'll appear to be to critical of everyone, and she'll go back to him.

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Sometimes girls do want to be "just be friends", but that is NOT always the case. Take it from a 47 year old girl. By being her friend, even though it's hurts right now, may benefit you in the long run. Relationships that start at 15 or 16 rarely make it through college. You've got plenty of time. I doubt you'll be a bachelor all your life.

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Very true. Plus, once you're going out with a girl, think of all the trips to the cinema, restaurants, skating rinks. Then there are the birthday/Christmas/anniversary/I want a present now, presents. You'll be broke in 5 seconds flat! Lol!

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Actually, I'll disagree. My most lasting relationships or most obsessive crushes, (lol) have sprung up out of friendships. I'm the kind of person who likes to know the guy really well before anything happens. I usually develop something from close friends, because I know personal things about them, and you tend to see them better than random crushes you might have on a person who you see only in the hallways at school.

The whole "i don't want to ruin the friendship" thing can be true, but more often than not, it means "i think youre a really cool person but I don't like you in that way, I really want to continue to have you as my friend though." At least, thats how I take it.

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Amy....uhhh, will you go out with me? LOL!

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Coaster131 [/i]
[B]Amy....uhhh, will you go out with me? LOL! [/B][/QUOTE]

Number 2768. Join the queue.

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Andy Rathe

Actually Andy, I was around #10 in the pictures topic...

[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Andy Rathe [/i]
[B]Very true. Plus, once you're going out with a girl, think of all the trips to the cinema, restaurants, skating rinks. Then there are the birthday/Christmas/anniversary/I want a present now, presents. You'll be broke in 5 seconds flat! Lol! [/B][/QUOTE]

My girlfriend and I don't spend money on each other. Maybe we'll buy each other candy bars or something, but since we're in college, every penny counts and we're not gonna waste money on each other :D. Maybe we'll go to a film sometime, but we'll have to find out a way to get to one (neither of us likes to drive).

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Voyage is the best roller coaster ever.
Raptor ride count - 1,146.

Sorry, I'm on a "boys are meanies" kick at the moment. Talk to me sometime in the future, maybe I'll get over it. ;) lol.

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Good to see that the EPFC is still out there. :D

Being friends is really your only option at this point. If they do break up in the future don't immideately move in. Be there for her to comfort her through it, but don't be a rebound relationship. Those don't usually last. But no matter what do not try and break them up. If she figures that out that you did (or even tried to) she will hate you and you will lose her completely.

-Tom

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[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Andy Rathe [/i]
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Number 2768. Join the queue. [/B][/QUOTE]

Can I be number 2769? BTW could I get a Fastpass? :) Getting on topic a second Everytime I see the hottest girl in the world usually in two or three months there will be a new girl who wins that honor. Just wait you will see a new girl who will make you forget about wanting to go out with her.

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So, Riddler, who is this girl?

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There is this girl i've known for two years. I Really started to like her about a month ago. See is one of the hottest girls I know, they two weeks ago I found out she likes me. we've been going out since the 1st of november.

Amy: How do you feel about having a waiting list?